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Wednesday, December 14, 2011

SBB 34th 周了!

很快的步入怀孕第八个月!34 周了!再多一个月,就可以看见我可爱的小公主啦!

哦,上一个post有提到她的中文名字,黄子涵,想了又想,还是叫黄纤涵比较好,纤细,有涵养!多高贵多有气质啊!妈咪希望你以后会是个聪明又有气质的才女哦!

今晚我会去妇产科做检查,希望可以看到SBB的五官!因为上一次去做扫描时,顽皮的她居然和我们玩achak!用两只可爱的小手遮住她的眼睛,所以我们只看到她的鼻子和嘴巴,好可爱哦!

今晚我也会请医生帮我写信,因为下个星期我们就要做飞机回家了!回家过年!回家等待SBB的到临!我的心情是又害怕又喜悦,害怕会很痛,喜悦是因为就快有小生命降临了,不知道到时候会不会应付的来呢?会不会手忙脚乱呢?

爱你的妈咪上
2011 年12 月14 日下午4:56

Friday, November 18, 2011

SBB 30th 周了!

哇,好快哦!好像幾個星期以前還一直害喜,嘔吐,頭暈,不舒服,現在已經進入3rd Trimester 啦!

肚子越來越大了哦, SBB 好像也沒那麽活躍了,可能是裏面的空間越來越小了,所以需要很留意,才可以發現到她在動或踢。 她安靜的時候,會開始擔心她在裏面怎樣了,是睡着了,還是發生什麽事情了,她很頑皮的用力踢的時候,我就會很開心,和她説話,摸摸她,問她怎麽啦,是不是餓啦,是有什麽想說的嗎?這個感覺真得很美好,我很享受!

再多兩個月她就要出來了,到時候應該會很懷念她在我肚子裏面的感覺,可是一想到可以摸到,看到真正的她,我就很開心!

哦,對了,最近一直在忙着想她的華文名字,根據老公他們家的族譜,這一代是“昌”字。老實說, 我本人對這個字特別沒有好感,發音不好聼,很老土,再加上用在女生的名字上,要找好聽的字配這個“昌”,真的很難,我真得很懊惱,煩得我都睡不着,一直想要如何説服不要用這個“昌”字,說了多個理由之後,老公好像開始同意不用了,所以就要開始想想那些我偏好的字吧!

首選的有-璇,涵,琪,琦,晴,萱,洁,茹,悦,晗。
在網上查了這些字的意思之後,“涵”這個字代表有涵養, 就在前面加上“子”,子涵,黃子涵, 好名字哦!特別,不會太嬌柔,也不會太陽剛, SBB, 你喜歡這個名字嗎?


愛你的媽咪上

2011.11.18 2:50pm

Monday, October 24, 2011

SBB 27TH 周- 椰菜花

哇!好快哦!小慧慧已經27 周啦!~現在的size, 有一個椰菜花那麽大!

最近她很活躍, 常常都踢我的肚子,感覺癢癢的,尤其是晚上,踢得更猛,還有當她把拔摸摸我的肚子一邊叫她girl girl 的時候,她也會一直踢給反應,真不愧是daddy’s little girl!

今天又有一點妊娠反應了,胃一直漲氣,是不是快要進入3rd Trimester 了,才會這樣呢?

有時候還會漲得緊緊的,很不舒服,希望小慧慧在裏面無恙,健健康康,再辛苦我都會撐下去!

寶貝,你聽到了嗎?媽咪和把拔都很期待你的降臨哦!


愛你的媽咪上
24 Oct 2011 12:29pm









Friday, September 16, 2011

SBB是小公主!

10 September 2011

今天,媽咪一直在網上尋找可愛的寶寶服裝,以便在來臨的臺北游,可以為SBB添置可愛的新衣,雖然SBB已經五個月大了,可是到現在都還沒有買到任何和她 有關的東西,老人家說等遲一點買吧!好吧好吧,就等吧!

可是媽咪已經迫不及待了,每當發現卡娃伊的東西,都想把它買下來,結果被SBB 把拔攔住了,“還不可以買!”

“可是可是。。。很可愛嘛:-( 被攔住后的媽咪一連無辜地説道。

SBB 把拔應該也是被煩得越來越着急了,突然閒問:“如果我們不知道的性別,那麽我們應該買男生還是女生的衣服呢?”

這個問題來得正是時候,其實我男生女生我都喜歡,不過如果是小公主,當然更開心啦,因爲可以扮美美,穿美美的裙子。說到扮美美,SBB 又在踢了。對啦,SBB 是小女生,是可愛又美麗的小公主!是小慧慧!

我們去了謝氏婦產科做了超音波檢查,醫生說沒有看到一條和兩粒,應該是女生,這個醫生好幽默哦!那時候的SBB, 還是不活躍,醫生一直敲媽咪的肚子,SBB 只是動了一動,就繼續睡覺了,醫生說那是她睡覺的時間,所以她是白天睡覺,晚上醒來!夜貓!怪不得每天晚上都一直對我猛踢!

好啦,SBB 要乖哦,明天我們要去臺北玩個八天七夜了,媽咪會買多多東西給你的!





期待我的小公主到來的媽咪上






Monday, September 12, 2011

My Tiny Little Hand

From the first time you moved,
only a little.
It is hard for us to find you,
you are only 8 weeks old.

As time went on,
you really started to grow.
But then we could always find you,
right in the middle.

It kind of felt like,
you were running a race.
Race against time,
for daddy and mummy to prepare.

There are many things in mind,
we really want to know.
But, you are hidden inside,
so the answers don't show.

The feelings cannot be described,
when we knew existence.
You participate in almost everything,
that you'll be hard to resist.

There will be no one like you,
not any place in the world.
For your existence,
is a commitment that bonds us together.

You will never feel,
like you are alone.
Don't worry my angel,
daddy and mummy will always be here for you.


From
Your Daddy & with Love Mummy

Monday, September 5, 2011

幸福是感覺到你在我的肚子裏一天一天的成長

幸福是感覺到你在我的肚子裏一天一天的成長~

這是我最近的心情,懷孕過後,想法,看法全都不一樣了,以前覺得看不開的事情,現在對我來說,已經沒什麽大不了了,因爲現在最重要的是我的SBB!

今天已經進入懷孕第五個月了,四個月時從小檸檬變成小橙子,再從小橙子變成小鰐梨,小鰐梨慢慢長大,變成大蔥!再從大蔥變成小番薯,小番薯再長大成上個星期的小番茄,今天是已經是小哈密瓜了!好開心!

一向來對奶有恐懼感的我,最近一直在My FM 和電視廣告聽到牛奶對胎兒的腦發育很有用,就開始喝EnfaMama了,奇妙的是,以前一喝到奶就會嘔吐,現在喝了就沒什麽感覺或反胃。以前很喜歡吃酸的,尤其是酸梅,現在吃了酸梅,反而吐得更嚴重。 一切都在改變了!只因爲有你,我親愛的SBB!

現在和SBB拔拔溝通,通常都不用“我”,會用“我們”,因爲我們是一體的!
每天醒來,我都會看看鏡子裏的我,看看那一天比一天大的肚子,摸摸秀秀一下,看看今天有什麽變化。最近也開始在肚子,腰部,手臂,臀部和大腿上搽按摩膏了,櫃檯小姐說我已經很遲了,有些人在懷孕的第二個月已經開始搽,哇,好怕輸哦!沒關係,現在懷孕五個月的我,皮膚的狀態還是正常的,所以現在就不可以馬虎了,每天搽兩次,有利於減少妊辰纹的形成。

這幾天一直在閲讀有關于臺灣的書籍,因爲后個星期,我們將會到臺灣七天六夜的自由行。聰明的SBB好像知道我們要去臺灣玩了,每當我閲讀這些書籍時,SBB 就會在肚子裏踢,現在也是在踢!怎麽啦寶貝?媽咪知道你很開心,媽咪一定會帶你去的!

還有一件事情一定要記載的:我發現每次我們要去逛街,尤其是去看嬰兒用品時,SBB 就會把我的肚子撐得脹脹緊緊的,好像在告訴我們他或她很興奮,要去bubu 啦,或者以爲我們要買東西給他或她了。小寶貝,乖啦,你的東西婆婆說現在買還太早了,等你七個月大去買,還來得及,耐心一點吧!

P/S SBB 真不愧是我的孩子,跟我簡直是一模一樣,講到逛街買東西,超興奮的啦!


Love,
愛逛街買多多東西的媽咪
5 September 2011 @ 12:47PM

SBB turned 4th month old!

19 August 2011

Time fly and our dearest SBB turned 4th month old!

Mummy weigh 66kg at this month and nurse had warning mummy not to put on weight too much as this might caused difficulty in delivery later.

Mummy is sick again, the appetite was very bad, and having diarrhea and vomit more than 10 times since last night. Basically vomit immediately after mummy drink liquid after each vomit. So it was just like spending the whole night vomitting in toilet and sleepless.

My poor SBB must be tired too. The next day papa brought mummy to Chia Maternity Clinic at Pelangi there for another round of ultra scan to make sure our dearest SBB is okay. Doctor warned if mummy continue to vomit and diarrhea, mummy might need to go to the nearest hospital for dripping. Mummy is scare! But when think of SBB, mummy promised to tough a bit, strong a bit because SBB is inside mummy and gambateh together with mummy!

During the scanning, doctor knock knock on mummy belly to make SBB awake but seems like SBB is too tired and refuse to play. Poor SBB, mummy understand, you must be stay awake the whole night accompany mummy right? Sayang la~

Ohya, doctor also tried to figure out the gender of SBB and suspected is Xiao Hui Hui! But still yet to be confirm as SBB little feet covered the bottom part and thus cannot be seen clearly.

Xiao Hui Hui or Xiao Yuh Yuh??To be found out in the next scanning.

This is the question that mummy has been asked N times recently by friends and relatives who care about mummy and SBB. For mummy, both Xiao Hui Hui and Xiao Yuh Yuh is welcome because you are precious and you are my everything!


Love,
Mummy
5 September 2011 @ 12:09PM

SBB first hand waving

12 July 2011 was another milestone for our dearest SBB!

That day was mummy second visit to Larkin Policlinic for checkup purpose.
Doctor helped mummy to perform ultra scan and I think our smart SBB is very happy and anxious to meet and say hi to mummy and wave to mummy!!

My cute SBB, you are such a smart baby! Mummy is very happy to see you also! Too bad papa wasn't there and he missed it. But never mind, mummy share with papa already.

Thanks God that you are having a good life inside mummy's womb so far and is not affected by mummy gastroenteritis yesterday which caused mummy vomit badly.

This week our dearest SBB already 3rd month old lo~ about the size of a lime, so mummy named you 小柠檬 at this week!

小柠檬要乖乖哦!



Friday, September 2, 2011

第一心跳

六月十三日,晴。
這天准媽咪我病了,所以在姑姑家休病假。
下午,感覺比較好了,便搭巴士從金文泰一路到紅茂橋的婦產科去做超音波檢查,順便也做了其他的相關檢驗,一共花了我新幣380!!
不過,這一切都是值得的,因爲我終于看到我的SBB了!!還看到她或他小小的心在很有力的一直跳一直跳,好像是很開心第一次和我見面了!嗨!媽咪的乖乖!
好興奮!!這種感覺非筆墨能形容,我還感動得流眼淚了,以後當你當媽咪時,你就會明白這種感覺是多麽的美妙,吐多少次,再辛苦,一切都值得了!
開始體會到人們常說的“懷孕是一件多麽万德福(Wonderful)的事情”,精子和卵的結合,慢慢的形成胚胎,然後在媽咪的肚子裏一天一天的成長,偶爾撒撒嬌,踢踢媽咪的肚子,越來越期待來臨的日子!

SBB 你要乖乖哦!媽咪和拔拔都愛你,期待你降臨的那一天!



31 May 2011 positive result!!

Finally completed my wedding blog and is time to announce to the whole world that I am going to step into the next phase of my life!! yaya, I am pregnant!! I am a mummy-to-be!!

Back dated to 31 May 2011 when my brothers How and Bak came to Singapore to visit me during their Gawai break. Few days before this I was having nausea quite frequent and I ignore it as I thought I was not that lucky as others. However, the symptom is getting more and more obvious so when we went to JB to fetch my brothers, we dropped by Watson at City Square JB to buy two pregnancy test kit as the price in Singapore is double! keke..

Immediately after reached big aunty house at Clementi Singapore, i rushed to the toilet and test. The first red line appear in few seconds after i dropped the urine on the test kit. The climax came when the second red line appear! I was like Oh My God!!Oh My God!! Is this real? Am I that lucky? Am I dreaming?

"Leonard!!!" I shout very loud from the toilet and hubby thought what happened to me and rushed over to check out. I passed him the test kit with positive test result and ask him to double confirm with me. He was too nervous I think and asked me what is double line mean and asked beside pregnancy, what can caused the result to be positive. haha.. I guess this should be one of the reaction of man first time being father!

Well, I didn't use the second test kit to confirm the result because I decided to go to check with GP after this. On 8th of June 2011, GP of Shenton Family Medical Clinic at Clementi Central tested for me again, using the test kit of different brand and confirm that I am pregnant!!!

The GP said beside pregnant, it is very rare to have other causes that will return positive result on the test kit and advise us to proceed with ultra scanning once reached 3rd month of pregnancy. So we just wait and wait...

First time being a mummy is excited,nervous and of course blur!!! Me and hubby did research on the Internet on what should and what not to eat. Understand that banana is good for reducing morning sickness so I ate a lot for the first few days until one day I announce to my mum about the pregnancy and she stopped me from taking banana because the banana that I ate is more to cold and this is not good for baby. People believed that baby will easily get sick and catch cold in future if mummy always drink cold drinks and eat cold food.
So, no more that banana for me and nowadays when constipation happened to me, I will just drink yogurt and eat more apples with high fibre.

Beside research on the internet, I also browse through all the IPhone Apps about pregnancy and found Baby Center that can provide me with bundle of informations. Based on Baby Center, on the 7th week of pregnancy which is 10 June 2011, my SBB is already the size of kidney bean! Isn't it amazing?

Ohya, SBB is the nick name that I gave for the little one in my tummy.
S can stand for many good meaning, S for Smart, S for Sui or pretty in chinese, S for Small and etc..

Welcome to the world SBB!



Love,
Mummy 2 Sep 2011

Thursday, August 25, 2011

大日子 2011 年2月11日第二部曲



長篇大論的把婚禮早晨的部分呈現過後,緊接下來就是另一個重點---禮堂篇!

8.45am,離開娘家以後,我們便前往青草路的晉福基督教堂做結婚禮拜。






9 點正,爸爸已經挽着我的手在教堂外等候。




婚禮進行曲嚮起時, 我們便跟著音樂一步一步的走到神殿前,爸爸把我的手再次交給老公,回到座位上,便開始了今天的結婚禮拜。





神父率領眾人一起為我們的婚姻祈禱,講解如何維持良好的婚姻關係,報佳音詩班為我們獻唱詩歌,就這樣過了一個小時,我們這對新人也足足站了一個小時,站得我的脚都快歪了,再加上高跟鞋太高了,真得很辛苦,原来结婚也可以那么累,呵呵!














結婚禮拜做完了,就已經中午十一點了,我們也準備了沙爹屋的自助午餐招待所有的來賓和親朋慼友。






午餐吃完了,我們就匆匆忙忙趕回家進行過門儀式。
過門儀式就是指新郎把新娘正式娶進家門,由前面的文章一直都有出現的‘驚為天雞’帶路,當然少不了放鞭炮,說吉利的話—早生貴子啦,白頭到老啦,永結同心啦。然後就是‘童子撒尿’和‘童子跳床’儀式,這兩個儀式的意思其實是代表早生貴子,看來傳宗接代對華人來說真得很重要!













接下來我便打開我裝滿嫁妝的行李箱讓親朋慼友們過目,這是我們古晉華人的一個習俗,爲什麽會説是屬於古晉華人的呢?因爲我問過新加坡的同事和西馬的朋友,好像他們都沒有這個習俗。通常在婚禮前夕,新娘除了需要打理和婚禮有關的事情外,還得準備把行李箱裝得滿滿的嫁妝,嫁妝越多,就越好,這樣嫁到夫家就不會失禮了。



隨著夫家的長輩親戚們陸續到達,敬茶儀式便開始。結婚敬茶順序是從内到外,由老到幼,微微姐姐在旁捧着茶盘,逐一介绍,我们一对新人向长辈们敬了茶,长辈们便递上红包加上几句祝福的话语。大约中午一时,便结束了夫家的敬茶仪式。



回到新房里,老公幫我把頭紗拆了,我便冲冲忙忙的換上红彤彤的旗袍,准备回娘家敬茶。





由于我们的新家和我的娘家距離很近,所以不到十分钟,我们便抵达娘家了。





和夫家的敬茶儀式一樣,我們先敬茶給公公婆婆,接下來便是外婆,然後爸爸和媽媽,叔婆,姑姑叔叔和阿姨們。過後便是晚輩向我們敬茶,輪到我們派紅包了!







敬茶儀式完了,我們便來張大合照,然後就回家休息準備要前往婚紗店開始晚宴的打扮了。



這邊摸摸,那邊摸摸,時間一下子就到四點了,原本答應婚紗店在三點半可以抵達,這一次輪到我們遲到了,管不了那麽多了,反正今晚我們是主角,我們還沒到,晚宴就不能開始,哈哈!
六點半,我們才抵達晚宴場地皇冠天閣,已經有一部分的來賓都抵達了,幸好有爸爸,媽媽,家翁家婆暫時幫我們接待來賓,媽媽還笑說,不知情的人士還以爲當晚的主角是她和爸爸,怪不得人家啦,她的水藍色旗袍真的是很亮,可以媲美我的晚裝了。







七點半,婚禮進行曲再次嚮起,老公牽着我的手,一步一步的走入晚宴會場,所有來賓的目光焦點都停留在我們的身上,好像都在說这一對新人好登對好幸福哦!







老實說,當晚的宴會上了什麽菜,我也不知道,因爲真的是太忙了,吃沒幾口,司儀就要求我們上台分享感想,敬酒,要不然就是該換裝了,在不然就是整場趴趴走去招呼親朋慼友。就這樣忙了一個晚上也就結束了我們的婚禮。當然這不是大結局,因爲婚禮過後我們就展開了新的人生旅程,我相信這段婚姻會長長久久,開花結果,一直幸福下去!